How to take care of our child and give love to them?💓

   How to take care of our ch 💓

 Hello everyone, welcome back to our channel, and this week we are discussing parenting and how to take care of our child. It is a really essential topic as all of us will have a chance to become a parent one day! It is important for us to make the kids feel loved.

 Firstly, we need to spend more time and give our patients to our kids, we need to be attentive when we are communicating with our kids as it will make them feel be loved. I can tell I can feel comfortable and respected when someone talks to me face to face, my dad is a good example of paying attention to his kids, I remember one day I just mention how much I wanna eat a specific brand of chocolate ice cream and then my dad bought it for me the other me, it is a wonderful thing for me not only I can eat my favorite ice cream, it is because I feel my dad cares about me and he remembered what I mentioned. In my point of view, I think if parents ignore or overlook while their kids are talking with them, the kids will probably do not want to talk to you next time. Moreover, we need to talk with them with eye contact which shows we respect and care about what they are talking about.

  Secondly,  kids need our physical content too such as hugs and kissing cheeks which is a small action that can demonstrate our love and care to them, I enjoy having comfortable physical content with others as it makes me feel more closed and friendly with them such as I love hugging with others when I meet them, it is a way to greet with others for me. I have a younger brother who is only 8 years old much younger than me and we are super close, I enjoy spending time communicating with him and I will give him a hug to him every morning before he goes to school and one time I slept over and my little brother came and knocked my door and gave me a hug and it made up my day. According to child trends, shows that a kid who grows in better parent-child communication will have higher self-esteem and fewer behavior problems, However, be careful don't be so touchy with others especially the opposite sex as they will feel uncomfortable. You can hug a same-sex girl and hold their hands which is normal but you won't hold your guy friend's hands and hug them.

  Thirdly, we need to give them more confidence and stop comparing them with other kids, I understand sometimes the parents will love to make the kids have more motivation to do a better job and be more motivated while they have compared with others but I think it is not good for our kid's development as it will lower their self-esteem and make them see others as an enemy, it is not a good situation. We should let our kids feel like they are special, stop comparing them with others, and we should be more supportive and encourage them more. We can give them rewards when they get a good result in their exam like buying them a doll or lego, when they are not performing well we can encourage them to do better next time, actually, most of the kids would want to perform well in their class so don't scold them so much try to solve the problems with them, it will strengthen your relationship with your kids and your kids will probably more willing to talk with you .

  Above are some of my points of view on how to make our kids feel more loved and closer with their parents.