The family under pressure

                                                   The family under the pressure 

5th March 2022

  Hello, welcome back to my blog again, I am glad to see all of you! This week we discuss the topic of the pressure of family it is a really heavy topic and we are discussing it later. Below, there are some of the things that I want to share below, there is a variety of pressure a family can face such as fiancee problems, health insurance, and a kid's education.

  Firstly, money is one of the essential problems of the argument of family. I have read an article about family over half of the people said the money is one of the main problems of argument as everyone needs money to spend on their daily supply so if one of them loses a job then the home will probably break off. as one of them will think their other half cannot afford the ability to take care of the home. At my home, both of my parents work full time so that they will have enough money to support us to have further education, I remembered one time my mum hurts her ankle so that our home had a danger in our fiancee so that my dad is a really good and reliable man and he takes two jobs to support our family so my mum always tells me to find a person like my dad. I really admire my dad as there are so many people who do not want to the responsibility but my dad is a really good example of men.

  Secondly, the health matter is also a huge problem we should face in the family as a strong body means that you can take responsibility and be reliable to rely on. In the news, it is also the main factor why some people break up in their families since a family lose a branch it will be a lot of pressure for your other half as they need to replace and take your duties so I understand why some of them choose to leave. I have heard a story from my aunt that her friend's husband has a stroke so he cannot work no more and he cannot even take of himself but she choose to support him without a doubt since she loves him and is willing to take his duties and take care of him. I really admire their relationship as they have a really strong relationship. The health problem will also happen in their kids since some children have a long-term health problem so both of their parents need to take care of them so sometimes one of them will feel like unfair as they maybe need to spend more time with the kids.

   At last, it is a matter of a kid's education as it will need an amount of money to spend on, not only school fees and also the fee of a tutor. Some of the parents are really concerned about their kid's studies so they will have lots of arguments on that, especially it always happen in mother's side as women care more about the details. My friend's mother is really strict so she has a lot of tutorial classes after school that make her feel lots of pressure.  Also, some of the parents care about kid's future path when they are little so they will have some argument about this stuff between mum and dad as one side will want their kids to have more time to rest and have entertainment while the other side would like their kids to focus more on education and academic performances. This problem for my eyesight is like both of them have lots of expectations for their kids but they are lack communication.

  I can understand the problems since there is a phrase in Chinese that is every family has its cupboard so we need to spend more time caring about and communicating with our family members.