How can we learn from marriage 💕

                                                       How can we learn from marriage?💓

            18th February 2022

    Hello everyone, welcome back to my blog, It is sweet to see all of you here. In the last lesson, we discuss how dating helps us grow and the process of dating. This week, we have a lesson on discussing how to get ourselves for marriage and what we can prepare for marriage.

  We could learn different things through marriage, such as we can learn how to take care of your other half since maybe you need to get used to getting along with a person in your daily life which can let your habits change.  Also, you will need to take care of your wife/husband's willingness when you do a decision. My parents are always a good example, they told me when they just got married for a month they argued a lot since they both have lots of own opinions but since both of them love each other, they try to understand and communicate the other's opinion so that they are really close now. After marriage, we need to have more time and patience to talk with our other half, maybe some people will say marriage makes freedom lower. I do not agree since if we can stay along well and take care of each other, it will be a really loving thing and through taking care we can grow in it too.

  Also,  through marriage, we could learn how to separate our duties at home. After marriage, we will live in the same house and work together. It is essential to separate our duties at home, such as at my home my mum be in charge of cooking meals and my dad will need to wash all the dishes after so that the workload is the same. Sharing the duties can let us work in the same team and feel beloved in it. I heard a meaningful quote from Barbara Cage " Love is a partnership of two unique people who bring out the very best in each other, and who know that even though they are wonderful as individuals, they are even better together,'' It is right, for me 1+1=2, we can have a better performance if we work together since every one of us has our own strength and weakness but if we can work together we can be stronger when we face the difficulties. 

  Moreover, marriage can help us change ourselves as we need to face hardship in life together, we need to budget together and stay along with others well, all of this will take us time to get used to and it will make us change. My dad once was a bad temper person and always be impatient but he told me he changed after married since he loves my mother and his kids. It is hard to change a person if they are not willing to, if a person willing to change for you he must be the love you so much. Sometimes, it is normal for us to imagine how can we change our other half and turn them into the people we want but it is no good sometimes as everyone is unique, we need to accept our wife/ husband have weakness but they also have their good personality, this is what makes you attracted by them. If we can change our mindset, we changed too we can become more loving and caring people.

  Marriage is a really vital thing which will change our whole life, it decides that we need to choose the right person who is going to stay along with us for a whole life. It is not easy to maintain a good marriage, sometimes we will have an opposite opinion and argument but it helps us grow.  I believed if you are willing to communicate and show your love, you will have a sweet marriage with your other half.