How could the dating help us to growth

                                              How could dating help us to grow?

11 February 2022

   Hello everyone, this week our teacher discuss the topic of dating.  It is super fun in the lessons and we can learn more information about how dating can let us grow.  Stop hanging out and start dating since dating is built on three things, talk, together with activities, and spend time who are only paired off and are willing to use time with you.

  There are four steps for a relationship that could help you to have a marriage, first dating, courtship, engagement, and marriage. So what could we learn through dating? Dating could build up our leadership skills since we need to plan the activity of dating and make the process runs smoothly so that both of us can have fun and know each other better. I have a worse hang out experience, that boy is inviting me to go out with him but actually, he did not have any plan so we decided to watch some movies, I asked his opinion on what did he wanna watched he told me he did not like movies, at that time I even want him to back to his apartment since he could not lead the day and made it smooth. After this, I have never dated him again. Having a nice date or hanging out we need to think about lots of things, like where to go, what to do, and when to leave. If you can not make the decision on these, don't invite a girl to hang out.

  Also, you could also learn communication skills through dating. As we need the courage to invite others for a date since you may be rejected by others or maybe that guy/girl is not as nice as you think. One of our classmates said " When you really have a chance to date that person you have a crush on, you will suddenly find out he is not as good as you think.'' It is essential for us to have a common hobby and topic so that we can open the chatterbox and get to know each other better. I respect the person who is brave to ask someone to hang out but I also admire the people who have the courage to reject someone they don't have an interest in, I believe no one would like to make others feel embarrassed and down.  My friend has a date with someone who she doesn't have an interest in since she doesn't know how to reject him. The guy keeps trying to have physical touch with her which makes her feel disgusted. Also, we need to communicate the topic which can really let us know each of us better.

  Moreover,  dating could also build up our self-monitor and let us grow. When we go out for a date we could meet people of different personalities and widen our horizons. Since in a relationship we need to spend more time getting along with our lover we need to separate the time well to balance working and relationship time so that we can enjoy both. Also, getting into a relationship means we need to pick up some responsibilities so that we could learn how to take care of others and let them feel beloved.  You can study with your boyfriend in the library so that we can have improvement together, a good girl/boyfriend should be let you have more improvement and grow together. It is vital for us to focus on our own work sometimes, it will be hard for somebody since when they are in love they will love to stick with each other so it is important to monitor yourself.

 I hope everyone could have a good relationship with your lover, I believed that if both of you have patience and care, you will win more love from your other half. I am here to wish all of you have a Happy Valentine!